Home.
I came home for the holidays this year – got here on Christmas Eve and will head back to San Francisco on New Years Day. Coming home for me means a 45-minute BART ride to the East Bay from San Francisco to the same house I grew up in.
For one reason or another on this trip home, now 5 days into it, I find myself totally and completely at peace. More so than I’ve felt in the recent months. I don’t know where or when exactly this feeling started; I was definitely NOT zenned out around my relatives on Christmas. But yesterday, on a cold Sunday afternoon, I was walking around the corner along my mom’s front yard and it hit me, “Wait a minute. I’m happy.”
I LOVE being home. I’m so aware right now how crazy stupid lucky I am to have this type of home to come home to. The same house. The same dining room table. The same bricks in the front yard that I watched my dad lay. The same bricks in the backyard that I sat on to wait for my turn on the swing. And even a few of the same neighbors who knew me before I was born.
On Thanksgiving this year, this is what I said I was grateful for at the dinner table. To have this home to come home to.
Thanks Mom and Dad.